In Reply to Some Who Questioned

It's understandable when I take into consideration most people's "conventional" mindset. Some have scoffed, some have criticized, some have doubted, and some just ask in curiosity how and why.

I love Lynn with all my heart, with my very being. She loves me and has never given me reason to think or feel otherwise. Nothing and no one comes between us emotionally. From the outside looking in, we are a typical couple with a family with typical life. In a social setting amongst friends and family, no one knows any different about us. Longtime friends since high school, intermediate/junior high, kids days, all look at us and have no inkling of anything different other than traditional life.

What we do behind the secret barrier of the bedroom door is our secret. Inviting another man to have sex with her is a human extension of a sex toy really. Well sometimes it gets to be more when familiarity of the same friend coming over to have sex with her breeds a bit more but that comes with the territory. Sexually we think outside the conventional box. I pretty much live outside the box in that regard, while she has to be encouraged to step out..

We keep our sexual adventures that extend beyond the norms a well guarded secret. I have this penchant to share that secret more so than her. We've done videos of her, of her fucking another, and photos sessions of both also. Her intent with being photographed and videoed erotically is for my private pleasure. I always hint to her of letting some selectively chosen men, and maybe women if any show interest, see the photos and videos. My taboo desire is for those select few to see Lynn erotically and get aroused by seeing her. Not for the entire world to see, not for strangers whom we have no connection to. My tendency is to share among old friends who have known us, old male classmates who know her since school days and would never have dreamed she'd be posing sexually and showing her pussy. Those who would appreciate, and show that appreciation, rediscovering their old classmate in a very sexually revealing way.

Lynn tells me not to share, but she knows me and how I am. I've told her that what if I share does she want to know who is seeing her. She said no she doesn't, and a small part of her likes the idea of not knowing if male friends in a social setting like a party are the ones who look at her knowing what she looks like with her legs spread and inviting.

Some say we have broken our marital vows. Motherfucker they didn't write our vows or attest to them. She and I have amended our vows to include things not already written. I am with her and enjoying with her when another man is between her legs as she spreads wide and they do the pelvic dance. She is not "unfaithful". She is not "cheating" on me. Get off of that high horse of stereotypical definitions. If you're not open minded enough to wrap your head around it, you don't belong in the conversation!