The Unconventional

I love my wife. True, unconditional and in almost all ways but one traditional, love. For a wife. I do cherish her and put her on a pedestal. Just not the conventional pedestal, and not cherishing in the conventional way.

On the outward facing side of our lives we're conventional. Nothing out of the ordinary. Had and raised our kids, have/had our careers, nothing "out of place" of the expected norm. No one is clued in otherwise. Behind closed and locked doors though, we do step away from "the norm" when we feel like having more fun than the usual bounds of traditional marriage. Especially me. I guess I've always been over the top, or at least beyond "typical" however that is defined, when it comes to sex. I'm glad she meets me at the same level and is not prudish, closed minded, and artificially religious like many wives are (or pretend to be).

Guys talk. Well some do anyway. About their sex lives and their wives. I've heard shit like:

- she only does it in the dark. No lights.

- she doesn't show me her stuff

- she won't (do this or do that like give head, do anal, etc.)

Oh fucking yikes! Had Lynn been like that I truly don't know how I'd have managed a relationship with her, let alone marriage. We did all that in our teens while in high school! What da heck! And I'm a visually oriented person. I love to see her body, to see the most intimate and erotic parts of her body. I enjoy seeing us having sex. Eventually, I came to enjoy watching HER have sex and me as a third party.

And as she and I developed and grew in age and in our relationship since our teenage years into adulthood, our sense of sexual adventure also grew. She grew with me to enjoy the sex too. I don't know that most girls/women do - they get stuck in their restrictive and prohibitive upbringing... and guys accept that. Oh fuck that!!

Das why I love my baby.