Q: What do you think of husbands who share their wives with other men?

 

This was asked on Quora.

What do you think of husbands who share their wives with other men?

To which my response was...

To each his own, some abhor it and some think more positively of it. Me, I think if both husband and wife agree with no reservations and are in a strong marriage, what they do to extend the play in their bedroom is good for them.

Our plans are set

From original journal entry, young adult days

All good things must come to an end, and Lynn left last night. Well, early this morning after flight delay back to Guam. It was a nice two weeks, albeit with me having some wild thoughts about the first 2 nights she was here and staying in Waikiki with Ken. She assured me they are just friends. Okay.

We're planning on early next year to get married. Then she can be with me permanently!

Playing house

From original journal entry

I got a guest house cottage and Lynn moved from Ken's place to the cottage. So nice playing house, and with a lot of sex! It made it easier on my mind thinking about shit. Like the other night I had to work the night shift. With Lynn here my mind was preoccupied with thinking about where she was while I was stuck at work. And then the next morning I called her and she said she and Ken went for dinner and a walk on the beach. That scenario got me jealous and possessive, wondering WTF was their walk about?? I guess it's just the man in me that makes me feel that way. But who knows...

In town for a visit

From original journal entry, young adult days

Lynn flew in two days ago, supposedly on business. When she first arrived she was staying in Waikiki in a male friend/former kinda co-worker's apartment on Walina St.. I went to go see her. Ken Leon Guerrero's place was a one-bedroom apartment. I wondered where she slept... sharing his bed?? How close are they in their friendship?? My curiosities and etgu tendencies were starting to kick in. I had to hold it in check. We fucked on his bed. After spending the afternoon there I left. I'm going to get a guest house cottage on the base so she can come stay with me... I don't know what her and Ken's situation is but having her stay with me at the guest house will remove the potential scenario.

Surprise revelation while home on leave

 From original journal entry, young adult days

I'm back from my Christmas leave. Bittersweet stay I guess I can call it. It had been a year since I saw Lynn. I thought she was waiting for me. I got in early morning, and she picked me up at the airport. We went to a hotel (Terraza Hotel in Tumon) to spend my first night on the island together and alone before seeing the rest of the family.

Well alright then, we got right into re-acquainting in bed. I hadn't had sex in a year!! Later, after the heated event, I quite frankly asked her if she had been with anyone. I truly expected her to say she hadn't. That wasn't her response. At first she was quiet and then soft spoken in a muttered response. Then it came out. She said she had gotten close to a client of her office and gave him head. What!! And if I'm to believe that that was all!! I know Lynn. Given the privacy, she will not go so far as to suck a man's cock and not also satisfy her pussy. But she denied doing anything more.

This set me off of course, and I was so upset. I called her names and told her I was just going to leave the island and go back to my work to forget everything. Lynn was so "apologetic", holding onto me and all saying I'm the one she wants. We argued for a while, with her holding onto me, hugging me, trying to soothe me.

I was still mad but we got into bed again. She began to pull up the covers over us, but I pushed them aside and spread her legs open. I asked her if she was sure that other man's dick didn't slide into her cunt as I spread her lips and began finger fucking her with two fingers. She moaned and assured me no. She got wet and was ready to be fucked. I slid my cock into her and began stroking. All the while I was talking trash to her, asking he if she enjoyed sucking "Jacob's" dick, did she like how he tasted in her mouth, having her describe his cock and how she sucked him. I was attempting to make her feel ashamed, telling her what she did was truly slutty, asking her if I'm engaged to a slut. While mad, I was getting turned on. My cock was pulsating inside her!

Lynn could tell it was turning me on and responded to all my remarks and questions accordingly.

Again, makeup sex at its best. I held her close when I started cumming, whispering in her ear that I thought she is a cunt, then started grunting as I unloaded inside her.

The next morning we did my normal arrival home routine, seeing my parents and family, and then hers. We got involved with family and it soothed the issue I had with her. By the time I left to go back to work, we were pretty normal in our relationship.

Caught and then Shared the Joy

From original journal entry, young adult days 

I laugh in hindsight. Yesterday I took out Lynn's pictures that she sent me, the erotic ones. I laid them out on my desk in my room. My roomies were gone to work. I decided to jack off to Lynn.

I was leaned over on my desk jerking off with Lynn's pics on the desk so I could cum close to her pics. I was almost at the top of my build-up to cumming. I don't know why I didn't check the door to ensure it was locked, thought it was, but my buddy since AIT Jay came walking in looking for me. He caught me feverishly beating my meat. I glanced over shocked at him as he stared at me, and then I turned away and blew my load.

I finished, still holding my dick in my hand, cum on the desk. I looked at Jay embarrassingly. He was wide eyed looking at me and asked "What the fuck let me see those pics". I refused, saying it's of my girlfriend. He kept saying "let me see her, let me see her". I wiped up my cum and my cockhead, pulled up my pants. I let him walk over to my desk to see Lynn's pics. He got so excited and asked to "borrow" her pics. I asked what for, and he said he wanted to jerk off now, to jerk off on her pics. I refused, nope, I'm not going to lose control of the pics and let someone else take them.

Jay said he'll masturbate to her pics right here in my room, no problem with me seeing him since he just saw me. I backed up from the desk. He asked if I'm okay with him sexually thinking of my girlfriend. I told him go for it since he already saw everything laid out. He pulled his cock out and masturbated over my desk like I did, all the while mumbling how good Lynn's pussy looked. He came very quickly. He cleaned up, I put the pics away. Done and no mention of it after.

I believe seeing/watching Jay jack off to Lynn's pics, seeing his rock hard cock in his hand and knowing his erection is because of lust for my girl, got me enjoying seeing men hard for her and even fucking her. That's when that penchant started.

Sent me pictures

From original journal entry, young adult days

It's been a long year being apart from my baby, both from emotional and physical sex standpoint. In our daily letter writing we began talking about taking self pictures and sending to each other. Lynn was skeptical about the mail system, putting such sensitive pics in an envelope, etc.. But she was excited about it too. I sent first, and then she did.

I tell you what it's hard finding in a 4-man room to find private time to jerk off.

The Bucket List

 buck·et list | noun INFORMAL | a number of experiences or achievements that a person hopes to have or accomplish during their lifetime.

It's turned from kinky adventure probing into my bucket list now that life circumstances have detoured me. I want to share, both ways, the photos and videos of me and wifey, our sexual exploits, etc., with select friends. Friends meaning those we know in real life, who can truly appreciate the personal revelations and discovery of known and possible longtime friends in a sexually revealing setting. In return, as mentioned of both ways, a reciprocal sharing by them with me. Show their wives sexually for me to enjoy.

Guys whose wives don't play and yet they want to share/see us, are interested in seeing her. Share of yourselves. I would share of my wife, with a return reciprocation of seeing male friends in photo/video masturbating for/to her, full revelation of cock/balls/face, talking nasty to her, showing themselves as they shoot their semen so she can potentially see. I want to see my friends, facial expressions as they jack off, lusting for my wife. Hey... she may need sex from friends!

Telling of experiences

I guess I've been (1) bored and, (2) examining my bucket list given what's gone on. Time's a'wastin'. Anyway I have been on and off of a site called Quora. It seems to give me an outlet, with questions posted by others and many of a very sexual and naughty nature. People answer... and I enjoy answering many of them with my experiences.

Maybe I should post here of the questions and my answers...

Putting out feelers

The ease or difficulty in putting out feelers as to interest in a topic/subject greatly depends on the topic/subject. Feelers, you know, to put together those pieces that make up a bucket list item.

In the case of my bucket list, it's how to see who among my/our (meaning my and Lynn's) friends might be interested in sharing sexual secrets. Which of the guys would be interested in seeing Lynn erotically. Which of the women might be interested in knowing what she and I do in our marriage (me and her, her with a couple of other men) and are willing to show of themselves in return. That's a hard nut to crack without possible "ai toka" reactions. Some I've approached, some I can't figure out how to...

Any serious suggestions out there?